Unlocking the secrets of weight loss

If you have read my blog will know I have struggled with weight loss over the years whether it’s a lack of motivation or simply not having the will power to succeed! It’s been a long  and painful journey!

As a child born in the 60s the food I ate at home and school was very different to what is available today, my Mum was a different generation and looking back there was not the nutritional awareness or variety that we have today of food types and diet.  Whilst the food was wholesome, I think back of the staple school dinners of pies, minced beef cobbler, vegetables and sponge puddings with custard I ask myself – was it really that healthy? My generation always ate school dinners and likely Mum cooked dinner in the evening when Dad came home from work. Perhaps by today’s standards of school dinners ours  were better but perhaps not as balanced. The food we had when I was a child was mainly cooked from scratch it wasn’t the over processed and fast food of recent years. Of course school dinners are a whole other issue #jamieoliver  #schooldinners and not a topic for today’s blog 

In my days of school, food and nutrition was not a subject that was widely available. PE or games was doing the activity not Learning about how the body works or responds to exercise and nutrition. Nowadays there is the option to learn more but should more time be spent in bringing these subjects into the general curriculum?

Of course Mum gave us a balanced diet at home but was it as healthy compared to today’s standards and have those bad eating habits developped through childhood lead the way to weight gain?

My Mum often says that she survived her pregnancy on chip butties as she could not tolerate other foods. I now know that did not help me in my body make up and the way I respond to food.

So how are the secrets to weight loss actually unlocked? Interestingly in his book The Obesity Code Jason Fung explores calorie deception, the new model of obesity what is wrong with our diet and the solution (amongst other aspects)

As a failed dieter and someone whose weight has gained after each relapse I can relate totally to his writings. My weight has steadily gained and in the last few years where my work has be come exceptionally stressful I can see the impact that has on my weight. I do now go  to the gym but only 2/3 times a week – This is not ideal but an improvement on not doing anything! No exceed isle is where I’d fallen to 6 months ago when my stress levels meant I could not be bothered to do anything. I don’t overreat, my diet is healthy but I can’t seem to kick start that weight loss. 

On Monday TOH and I decide to break the code with the suggested intermittent fasting. Monday was a total fast day and I have to say I was pleasantly surprised. I did it, it wasn’t as difficult as I thought it would be! Tuesday I ate simply and to suggestions in the book and today Wednesday is another fast day. Ideally Friday I should fast too but I have a work BBQ so maybe just an evening meal! My aim is to try to follow the plan for 4 weeks doing the 36 hour fast protocol, i.e. fasting on 3 days a week to reset my homeostasis, my insulin levels and my body! Watch this space, please send your positive energy to my for success and I will report back to you!

Argh!!!!

Why Is it that once you embark on something on the internet it becomes such an enormous time wasters! I tried to design a new bathroom online and failed miserably, setting up the room size window and doors took ages and by the time I had that right  the stress of trying to fit a bath into the room in all sorts of ways has made me realise I need to give up the dream of the double ended bath and go for the big luxury shower instead! I suppose every cloud has a silver lining!

Instead I decided on planning some fun things to do in Bellagio, Lake Como, Italy where I am travelling to in a couple of weeks. That has proved rather therapeutic, the thought of electric bikes, private boat tours and ferry trips coupled with good food and wine certainly proved an escape! However suddenly realising the time I had spent fantasising myself as George Clooney’s new wife brought be back to earth with a bump.

I needed  to do a shopping list –  but there were of course other pressing jobs needing my attention such as trying to sort out Amazon Prime so that it could actually work on my TV. Needless to say after further research I discovered to my disappointment that my TV is not on Amazon’s list of compatibles even though it’s a Samsung Smart TV.  Is it a conspiracy? As an aside last weekend the same task actually wasted the whole afternoon as me and TOH nearly came to blows due to the poor instructions and lack of information from the said Amazon Prime. I have now bought the hdmi cable which is in fact the cheapest and easiest option! Well,  we will see when it’s delivered (by Amazon Prime)  can it be that hard connecting cables to the TV and iPad! So thanks Amazon Prime the whole TV streaming thing is a bit of a con for the 50 plus technophobe! You have had 2 subscriptions from me hopefully I will soon get to view some programmes 

Time check  –  going shopping in 45 mins now need shower, eat breakfast pay for our August holiday and do the shopping lst! I need to rewind back to 6.30 am when I woke up or not get so distracted!

Beautiful pictures  for contemplation and positive energy thoughts, enjoy I’m having a shower.

  

  

What is it about the first of the month! 

  

How many healthy eating plans, diets or exercise plans start and fail within a short period of time?

The penny has finally dropped for me – as when I am feeling accomplished at work it has an impact on my home life, resulting in less stress and feeling more empowered in my life including gym and diet. 

My job is stressful and I often bring it home with me and if I don’t do it, it sits there staring at me and mocking me so consequently I feel too guilty to go to the gym which then has the downward spiral with the diet. The “why bother” syndrome!

The whole work life balance is something that can really go out of kilter and so for me I know I must address it in order to accomplish the other small achievements.

My goal is to celebrate my small accomplishments and leave work at work! 

Staying focused

Can anyone explain to me why it’s so difficult to have that memento and stick to something? I seem to fail continuously at this whether it’s sticking to a diet or going to a gym. The sad thing is I know I’m doing it yet it keeps happening and I do want to get fit and lose weight! 

Perhaps I have an underlying desire not to succeed and it is much easier to fail. My excuse is my work. I have a very pressured job. I’m always bringing stuff home to do sometimes I do it sometimes I don’t but it sits there mocking me and consequently I don’t go to the gym and then feel guilty! That then spirals into what’s the point!

I have a 10 year old and she does so many things after school and weekends I find I don’t have time and come 9pm I am winding down. On the odd times I have taken her with me she is happy to wait for me if I do a spin class or activity. 

I need to lose a good 40 pounds but I think  the answer is locking me up. I want to see results in weeks though!  

I need my own personal trainer! Vinnie Tortorich are you free! I need the worlds angriest trainer to yell at me! 

I have read loads of books and understand the healthy living approach , no sugar no grains, paleo approach and I love the food. I confess I have had some chocolate this week and for the first time in ages pizza! I was persuaded by my daughters friend to get a dominos. Not only did it cost the earth but it was revolting. I genuinely felt sick, bloated and had a headache afterwards. It didn’t even taste good! 

What is the secret of success and being able to stick at something? Perhaps I believe I will fail at the outset and it’s one of those self perpetuating cycles 

Feeling fed up!